When I begin working with a new client, I often hear the business owner describing their company in ways that give a peek into whatโs going on underneath the exterior theyโre presenting. They use phrases like โIโm up to my eyeballs,โ โitโs exhausting,โ โI have to do everything myself,โ and โno one pulls their own weight.โ
Itโs a sign to me that these business leaders could be headed for burnout, even if they arenโt ready to admit it to themselves, yet.
Most small business owners feel high levels of stress. So itโs not surprising that after an extended amount of time under these conditions, many business owners and leaders start heading towards business owner burnout.
What Is Burnout?
Business burnout is the feeling of exhaustion and lack of interest in daily work, resulting in poor performance. Itโs caused by an extended time of feeling heavy stress and constant pressure to live up to a certain standard.
Business owners who are burned out usually feel like theyโre on their own, and have to do everything themselves because they donโt trust their people to be accountable for their work.
Signs Youโre Headed for Burnout
Are you heading for burnout? Here are the signs to watch out for.
1. Youโre exhausted and overwhelmed
You donโt have the energy to do the work you used to love doing. Just the thought of tackling your To-Do list gives you a feeling of dread.
2. Youโre frustrated and cynical
Itโs hard to find all the good work thatโs happening in your company, because all you see are issues that never seem to get resolved. Itโs frustrating, and you have a hard time believing things can change.
3. You canโt think well
Itโs getting more difficult to make decisions, and you find yourself forgetting the kinds of things that you used to remember easily. You might find it harder to focus for long periods of time.
4. Your performance is dropping
This is probably a result of your difficulty thinking, and your exhaustion. You know that your work is slipping, so you work even harderโand longerโto make up for it.
5. Youโre always at workโฆeven when youโre not at work
Emotionally and mentally, youโre at the office. The business is always on your mind, and you have a hard time being emotionally present with family and friends.
6. You treat your people poorly
Are people avoiding you at work? You may be treating them unfairly. Short tempers and explosive behavior are a common signs of burnout.
7. Nothing seems good enough
Youโre quick to point out the negative before the positive โ and you may not even acknowledge the positive in a particular situation.
8. You socialize less
You donโt talk socially at work, and you may avoid socializing outside of work. This is partly because youโre working longer, and partly because you donโt have the emotional energy to be with others.
9. You canโt sleep
Relying on medication to fall asleep at night is a common red flag that youโre burning out.
10. You have health issues
Increased stress over time, and neglecting your physical well-being, will eventually cause certain health problems.
How to Recover from Burnout
Some business owners are so overwhelmed when we start working together that they donโt see any way out of the burnout. But once they start implementing some simple, proven solutions, they begin to get energized by their work again.
Here are some simple, practical things you can do to stop (or recover from) burnout.
Exercise and eat right
Exercise increases endorphins and relieves the physical tension youโve built up. It also helps your mind stay clear and increases problem-solving. Stay on a healthy diet, too.
Make R&R a priority
Even though itโs tempting to work more, your productivity at work drops when you donโt get the rest and recreation you need. Schedule time in your weekly calendar to rest and spend downtime with the people you enjoy.
Unplug at night
Force yourself to turn off your devices and to be unavailable after dinner. My clients are often surprised to realize that the emergencies they thought they had to deal with immediately could actually be resolved at least as effectively the next morning.
Donโt use sleeping pills
Dependence on prescription sleep aids only creates a vicious cycle.
Ask for help (Delegate and elevate)
Realize that you canโt do everything on your own. Ask your leadership team for help, and use the EOS Delegate and Elevate Tool to figure out which activities you should invest your time onโand which ones should be given to others.
Increase accountability
Keep your people accountable for the tasks they agree to do. In your weekly meetings, follow up on the To-Dos that were assigned to each person. If a task wasnโt completed, ask what they need in order to complete it in the next seven days.
Implement an operating system for your business
When your business is running on a simple, proven system, youโll begin to get everything you want out of your company. An effective operating system, like EOS, lets you run your businessโinstead of your business running you.
If you see yourself in any of these signs of business owner burnout, make the commitment to stopping it in its tracks. Get your leadership team on board and start implementing these tips to prevent burnout today. Youโll rediscover the life and the business you really love.
Find out more about how EOS can get your business under controlโdownload a free chapter of Traction, the book that introduces EOS. Or, request a 90-Minute Meeting to see if EOS is right for your company.
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