During a recent Annual Planning season, one of my clients was moved to tears while reflecting on the past year. He was recounting a “personal great,” and filled with pride for his daughter while sharing a few of her significant accomplishments. He struggled to finish the story, and ultimately needed to take a short break to compose himself. Throughout this touching, heartfelt moment, he kept apologizing to his team for being so emotional.
The Four Delusions of Success
The fundamental beliefs that drive our success can also lead us to overestimate our contributions to that success.Ignoring our own shortcomings, we take credit for things others have accomplished and thereby miss opportunities to change and to grow, not only for ourselves but for others as well.
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